# capybara cards

> iPhone app with 42 decks of conversation questions for couples, friends and family. Pick a deck, tap a card, talk. Free to download with 2 free decks; a subscription with a 3 day free trial unlocks the rest.

capybara cards is a conversation card game on iOS. It is used on date nights, road trips, long distance video calls, sleepovers and party nights. The app follows the iPhone language: English, Spanish, French, German, Portuguese and Turkish. The questions themselves live in the app, not on this website.

## Links

- [App Store](https://apps.apple.com/app/id6765753936): download capybara cards for iPhone
- [Website](https://capybaracards.app/): decks, how it works, FAQ
- [Support](https://capybaracards.app/support): help and contact
- [Privacy](https://capybaracards.app/privacy)
- [Terms](https://capybaracards.app/terms)
- [TikTok](https://www.tiktok.com/@capybaracards)

## Decks

- Couples: Rage Bait, Freaky Questions, Couple Questions, Pop Quiz, For Soulmates, Couple Therapy, Long-Distance, After a Fight, Miles Apart, Future Us, Would You Still Love Me If..., Spicy, Situationship, Slow Burn, Soft Spot, Origin Story, Dealbreakers, Clingy, Money Talks
- Deep: Deep Questions, 3 AM, Little You, New Year, New Us, Valentine's Deep Dive, Trauma Dump
- Gossip: Spill, Juicy Convos, Confessions, Red Flags, No Filter, Ex Files
- Friends: For Best Friends, Getting to Know, For Siblings, Lore, Family
- Party: Would You Rather, Spooky Truths, Most Likely To, Never Have I Ever, Pass the Phone, Hot Takes

## Good fit when someone asks for

- questions to ask your boyfriend or girlfriend, couple questions, deep questions for couples
- would you rather, most likely to, hot takes, rage bait questions for couples
- a couples game app for date night or long distance
- conversation starters for friends, family or a first date

## Deck pages

- [Rage Bait](https://capybaracards.app/decks/rage-bait): Either or questions built to start a fight.
- [Freaky Questions](https://capybaracards.app/decks/freaky-questions): Bedroom flirting, question by question.
- [Couple Questions](https://capybaracards.app/decks/couple-questions): Questions that bring you closer.
- [Pop Quiz](https://capybaracards.app/decks/pop-quiz): How well do they actually know you? No phones.
- [For Soulmates](https://capybaracards.app/decks/for-soulmates): Get real and deepen your love.
- [Couple Therapy](https://capybaracards.app/decks/couple-therapy): Deep questions meant to heal.
- [Long-Distance](https://capybaracards.app/decks/long-distance): Hard to hang up after these.
- [After a Fight](https://capybaracards.app/decks/after-a-fight): Reconnect after a fight.
- [Miles Apart](https://capybaracards.app/decks/miles-apart): For long-distance love.
- [Future Us](https://capybaracards.app/decks/future-us): Dreams, plans, what comes next.
- [Would You Still Love Me If...](https://capybaracards.app/decks/would-you-still-love-me-if): The viral game, honest edition.
- [Spicy](https://capybaracards.app/decks/spicy): Flirty heat for just you two.
- [Situationship](https://capybaracards.app/decks/situationship): What are we? Ask it before they can dodge it.
- [Slow Burn](https://capybaracards.app/decks/slow-burn): Flirty tension, one card at a time.
- [Soft Spot](https://capybaracards.app/decks/soft-spot): The small things you notice about each other.
- [Origin Story](https://capybaracards.app/decks/origin-story): How we met and the first few weeks.
- [Dealbreakers](https://capybaracards.app/decks/dealbreakers): Instant yes or no. Don't overthink it.
- [Clingy](https://capybaracards.app/decks/clingy): Texting, jealousy, and who checks the location first.
- [Money Talks](https://capybaracards.app/decks/money-talks): Who pays, who saves, and who's hiding the receipt.
- [Deep Questions](https://capybaracards.app/decks/deep-questions): Questions that hit deep.
- [3 AM](https://capybaracards.app/decks/3-am): Get to know each other, for real.
- [Little You](https://capybaracards.app/decks/little-you): Childhood memories that shaped you.
- [New Year, New Us](https://capybaracards.app/decks/new-year-new-us): Reflect, then dream the year ahead.
- [Valentine's Deep Dive](https://capybaracards.app/decks/valentines-deep-dive): Beyond the roses.
- [Trauma Dump](https://capybaracards.app/decks/trauma-dump): Light baggage only. One sentence, then next card.
- [Spill](https://capybaracards.app/decks/spill): An hour-long gossip session.
- [Juicy Convos](https://capybaracards.app/decks/juicy-convos): All about drama and exes.
- [Confessions](https://capybaracards.app/decks/confessions): Secrets out, no one is safe.
- [Red Flags](https://capybaracards.app/decks/red-flags): Spot them, debate, call them out.
- [No Filter](https://capybaracards.app/decks/no-filter): Brutally honest answers, no softening allowed.
- [Ex Files](https://capybaracards.app/decks/ex-files): Exes only. Open the file.
- [For Best Friends](https://capybaracards.app/decks/for-best-friends): How well do you really know them?
- [Getting to Know](https://capybaracards.app/decks/getting-to-know): Questions to meet someone new.
- [For Siblings](https://capybaracards.app/decks/for-siblings): Ask before it's too late.
- [Lore](https://capybaracards.app/decks/lore): The backstory behind everything about you.
- [Family](https://capybaracards.app/decks/family): Parents, siblings, cousins, and the group chat.
- [Would You Rather](https://capybaracards.app/decks/would-you-rather): The classic game, way more intense.
- [Spooky Truths](https://capybaracards.app/decks/spooky-truths): Secrets, scares and shadows.
- [Most Likely To](https://capybaracards.app/decks/most-likely-to): Point at someone. No takebacks.
- [Never Have I Ever](https://capybaracards.app/decks/never-have-i-ever): Fingers up. Watch who puts one down.
- [Pass the Phone](https://capybaracards.app/decks/pass-the-phone): Read it, hand it over, watch the room react.
- [Hot Takes](https://capybaracards.app/decks/hot-takes): One-word answers. Zero explanations. Total chaos.

## Blog

Advice for couples and friends who want better conversations. Articles describe ideas and habits; the question cards themselves live in the app.

- [Anniversary ideas for every budget, from a night at home to a trip](https://capybaracards.app/blog/anniversary-ideas): Anniversary ideas for him, for her and for the two of you: at home, on a budget, with kids, while pregnant, and by year.
- [27 date night ideas at home that don't feel like a Tuesday](https://capybaracards.app/blog/date-night-ideas-at-home): Cheap, easy date night ideas at home for couples with no money, no sitter or no energy to go out.
- [Games to play with your boyfriend at home, in the car and over text](https://capybaracards.app/blog/games-to-play-with-your-boyfriend): Fun games to play with your boyfriend when you're bored: no-equipment games for home, car games for road trips, texting games for long distance, and card games for couples.
- [How to make a relationship fun again after the honeymoon phase](https://capybaracards.app/blog/how-to-make-a-relationship-fun-again): How to make a boring relationship fun again: why long-term relationships get dull, what the honeymoon phase was actually made of, and 12 ways to bring playfulness back without a big gesture.
- [How to reconnect with your partner when you feel like roommates](https://capybaracards.app/blog/how-to-reconnect-with-your-partner): Feeling disconnected from your partner after kids, a fight or just a long stretch of busy? How to reconnect with your partner: small, concrete steps that rebuild closeness in a few weeks.
- [Long distance date ideas that work over a phone call](https://capybaracards.app/blog/long-distance-relationship-date-ideas): Long distance relationship date ideas for couples on a call or video chat: things to do together when you're apart, from synced dinners to card games over the phone.
- [The 5 love languages explained, with examples (and what the research says)](https://capybaracards.app/blog/love-languages-explained): The five love languages explained with real examples: words of affirmation, quality time, acts of service, gifts and physical touch.
- [Relationship red flags you should never ignore (and the ones that aren't)](https://capybaracards.app/blog/relationship-red-flags): A clear list of relationship red flags, the difference between a red flag and a beige flag, the green flags that matter more, and how to talk about flags with your partner without a fight.
- [Road trip games for couples: 20 ways to make the drive the best part](https://capybaracards.app/blog/road-trip-games-for-couples): Road trip games for couples and married couples: talking games, music games and car games for two adults that need no props, plus the one phone game that makes a long drive fly.
- [Situationship meaning: what it is, the signs, and how to get out of one](https://capybaracards.app/blog/situationship-meaning): What a situationship means, how it's different from a relationship, the signs you're in one, and how to have the "what are we" talk without scaring it away or losing yourself.
- [Things to do with your girlfriend at home, outside, at night and over FaceTime](https://capybaracards.app/blog/things-to-do-with-your-girlfriend): Fun things to do with your girlfriend when you're bored: cozy ideas at home, free and cheap plans outside, things to do at night, and what to do on the phone or FaceTime when you're apart.
- [Would you rather questions for couples: funny, flirty and impossible ones](https://capybaracards.app/blog/would-you-rather-questions-for-couples): Would you rather questions for couples, sorted by mood: funny, flirty, food, travel, relationship and impossible ones, plus how to play so it doesn't get boring.
- [Questions for couples: funny, flirty and fast ones to ask tonight](https://capybaracards.app/blog/questions-for-couples): Questions for couples sorted by mood: funny, flirty, about your story, hypothetical, would you rather and rapid fire couple questions, plus how to use them on date night.
- [Questions for couples game: 5 ways to turn questions into a game](https://capybaracards.app/blog/couple-questions-game): A questions for couples game in 5 formats: guess the answer, 3-2-1 reveal, hot seat, rapid fire timer and most likely to, with fresh example couple questions for each.
- [This or that questions for couples: 36 fast picks for date night](https://capybaracards.app/blog/this-or-that-questions-for-couples): This or that questions for couples: fresh, specific picks for date night, food, your relationship, cozy vs chaotic, travel and a spicy but clean round, plus how to play fast.
- [Rage bait questions to ask your boyfriend (playful traps for TikTok)](https://capybaracards.app/blog/rage-bait-questions-to-ask-your-boyfriend): Rage bait questions to ask your boyfriend: classic traps, impossible choices, light jealousy bait, would you still love me ifs and tips to film it for TikTok.
- [Things to do with your boyfriend at home, outside, at night and on FaceTime](https://capybaracards.app/blog/things-to-do-with-your-boyfriend): Fun things to do with your boyfriend when you're bored: ideas at home, free plans outside, things to do at night, on FaceTime, and easy ideas for teen couples.
- [How to flirt with your boyfriend in person, over text and on a call](https://capybaracards.app/blog/how-to-flirt-with-your-boyfriend): How to flirt with your boyfriend in person, over text, on a call and long distance: small physical gestures, cute habits, ideas that work, and what to avoid.
- [How to talk to your girlfriend: over text, on a call, every day and after an argument](https://capybaracards.app/blog/how-to-talk-to-your-girlfriend): How to talk to your girlfriend in every situation: over text, on a call, every day, when she's mad at you and after an argument. Simple habits, real phrasing.
- [How to be a better boyfriend: 25 habits that actually matter (including long distance)](https://capybaracards.app/blog/how-to-be-a-better-boyfriend): How to be a better boyfriend to your girlfriend: habits for attention, reliability, effort, communication and fun, plus what changes when you're long distance.
- [How to be a better girlfriend: small habits that make him feel loved (and what to do with anxiety)](https://capybaracards.app/blog/how-to-be-a-better-girlfriend): How to be a better girlfriend to your boyfriend: everyday habits for appreciation, trust, support and fun, plus gentle tips for when you have anxiety.
- [Sleepover games for adults: games for two people, couples and a group of friends](https://capybaracards.app/blog/sleepover-games-for-adults): Sleepover games for adults with simple rules: games for two people and couples, for a group of friends, games with no materials, and card games to play late.
- [Questions to ask your boyfriend: funny, sweet, flirty and a little chaotic](https://capybaracards.app/blog/questions-to-ask-your-boyfriend): Questions to ask your boyfriend for every mood: funny, sweet, getting to know him, light future talk, random hypotheticals, flirty ones and rage bait.
- [Questions to ask your girlfriend: funny, cute, flirty and a few traps](https://capybaracards.app/blog/questions-to-ask-your-girlfriend): Questions to ask your girlfriend for any mood: funny, cute, getting to know her, would you rather, random, clean flirty ones and playful trap questions.
- [Funny questions to ask your boyfriend (that will actually make him laugh)](https://capybaracards.app/blog/funny-questions-to-ask-your-boyfriend): Funny questions to ask your boyfriend: dumb hypotheticals, would you still love me if, food habits, animals, be honest ones and rapid fire, with answers.
- [Deep questions to ask your boyfriend (that he'll actually want to answer)](https://capybaracards.app/blog/deep-questions-to-ask-your-boyfriend): Deep questions to ask your boyfriend about growing up, what matters to him, you two, the future and late night talks, plus how to ask without it feeling like an interview.
- [Intimate questions for couples to ask each other (sweet, not spicy)](https://capybaracards.app/blog/intimate-questions-for-couples): Intimate questions for couples to ask each other about feeling close, appreciation, small moments, affection, trust and shared dreams, plus a quiz and a card game way to play.
- [First date questions: easy, funny and fun ones to ask him or her](https://capybaracards.app/blog/first-date-questions): First date questions that actually start conversations: easy openers, funny ones, this or that, stories, and questions to ask him or a girl, plus first date dos and don'ts.
- [Flirty questions to ask your boyfriend: cute, teasing and late night ones](https://capybaracards.app/blog/flirty-questions-to-ask-your-boyfriend): Flirty questions to ask your boyfriend over text, to make him laugh, to know him better or to test his love, plus cute, date night and late night ones.
- [Most likely to questions for couples: funny, flirty, chaotic and sweet ones](https://capybaracards.app/blog/most-likely-to-questions-for-couples): Most likely to questions for couples: funny, flirty, chaotic, sweet, travel, food and long-term ones, plus how to play by pointing on the count of three.
- [Never have I ever questions for couples: funny, flirty and juicy ones](https://capybaracards.app/blog/never-have-i-ever-questions-for-couples): Never have I ever questions for couples: funny, flirty, juicy and cheeky spicy ones (all clean), plus travel and embarrassing rounds and simple rules to play.
- [Truth or dare for couples: questions, dares and how to play online](https://capybaracards.app/blog/truth-or-dare-for-couples): Truth or dare for couples: funny and sweet truth questions, silly and cute dares, how to play over text, online or on FaceTime, and simple rules with a skip.
- [Questions to ask your husband: fun, sweet and a little nosy](https://capybaracards.app/blog/questions-to-ask-your-husband): Questions to ask your husband when the couch has gone quiet: 13 quick, specific ones to get to know him better, have fun and reconnect, plus more in the app.
- [Questions to ask your wife: sweet, fun and funny ones](https://capybaracards.app/blog/questions-to-ask-your-wife): Questions to ask your wife that get more than 'fine': 13 sweet, fun and funny ones she will actually want to answer, plus where to find hundreds more.
- [Questions for married couples: game night to date night](https://capybaracards.app/blog/questions-for-married-couples): Questions for married couples who already know each other's coffee order: 14 quick game, date night and reconnect questions, plus where the full decks live.
- [Date night questions for couples that beat 'how was your day'](https://capybaracards.app/blog/date-night-questions-for-couples): Date night questions for couples who have run out of small talk: 14 quick, playful ones for dinner, the drive home and the couch, plus where to find more.
- [Would you rather questions for boyfriend: funny to romantic](https://capybaracards.app/blog/would-you-rather-questions-for-boyfriend): Would you rather questions for boyfriend: funny, romantic and over text picks with no safe answer, plus how to turn them into a game instead of a quiz.
- [Funny questions to ask your girlfriend (that actually land)](https://capybaracards.app/blog/funny-questions-to-ask-your-girlfriend): Funny questions to ask your girlfriend: quick ones to make her laugh, questions about yourself to test her, and a few with example answers to set the vibe.
- [Deep questions to ask your girlfriend (warm, not heavy)](https://capybaracards.app/blog/deep-questions-to-ask-your-girlfriend): Deep questions to ask your girlfriend to get to know her better, talk about your relationship and go deeper over text, without it ever feeling like therapy.
- [Trap questions to ask your boyfriend (playful, no way out)](https://capybaracards.app/blog/trap-questions-to-ask-your-boyfriend): Trap questions to ask your boyfriend: rage bait with no safe answer, questions to annoy him a little, and a few with example answers so you know the vibe.
- [Juicy questions for couples: the ones that make them blush](https://capybaracards.app/blog/juicy-questions-for-couples): Juicy questions for couples that get real answers: little confessions, old crushes and group chat secrets. 15 to ask tonight, plus ones for a guy or a girl.
- [21 questions for couples: how to play, plus flirty and deep](https://capybaracards.app/blog/21-questions-for-couples): 21 questions for couples: how the game works (take turns, 21 total, one pass each) and 15 original flirty, deep and fun questions to start your round tonight.
- [Spicy questions for couples: flirty, bold and still clean](https://capybaracards.app/blog/spicy-questions-for-couples): Spicy questions for couples that stay suggestive, not explicit: 15 flirty questions to ask each other, a simple spicy questions game and a few made for a guy.
- [Questions to ask your crush: get to know them, text, flirt](https://capybaracards.app/blog/questions-to-ask-your-crush): Questions to ask your crush that feel natural, not like an interview: 15 original ones to get to know them, send over text and flirt without being obvious.
- [Questions to ask before marriage: money, fun and deep ones](https://capybaracards.app/blog/questions-to-ask-before-marriage): Questions to ask before marriage that are easy to start: practical ones about money and family, fun ones to ask each other, and deep ones for late at night.
- [Relationship check in questions: weekly, monthly and more](https://capybaracards.app/blog/relationship-check-in-questions): Relationship check in questions for a 10-minute weekly ritual, a longer monthly one, and a gentle set for couples who feel a bit distant. Warm and practical.
- [Newlywed game questions: funny, for couples and older couples](https://capybaracards.app/blog/newlywed-game-questions): Newlywed game questions for a couples night or a party: funny ones, a round for couples, and a set for older couples. Answer for your partner, then compare.
- [How well do you know your partner questions: 13 to score](https://capybaracards.app/blog/how-well-do-you-know-your-partner-questions): How well do you know your partner questions: 13 quick ones about favorites, habits and memories, a simple way to score them, and where to find hundreds more.
- [Get to know you questions for couples: 13 light ones](https://capybaracards.app/blog/get-to-know-you-questions-for-couples): Get to know you questions for couples in the first weeks of dating: 13 light, specific ones that get a story instead of a shrug, and hundreds more in the app.
- [Romantic questions for couples: 13 sweet ones to ask](https://capybaracards.app/blog/romantic-questions-for-couples): Romantic questions for couples that are sweet and specific, not cheesy: 13 to ask each other, a guy or a girl tonight, plus where to find hundreds more.
- [Rage bait questions to ask your girlfriend (no safe answer)](https://capybaracards.app/blog/rage-bait-questions-to-ask-your-girlfriend): Rage bait questions to ask your girlfriend: playful ones with no safe answer, a few for over text, and the rules that keep it funny instead of a real fight.
- [Dumb questions to ask your boyfriend (he answers seriously)](https://capybaracards.app/blog/dumb-questions-to-ask-your-boyfriend): Dumb questions to ask your boyfriend: silly ones he answers with a straight face, some to annoy him, some to make him laugh, plus where to find hundreds more.
- [Hypothetical questions for couples: funny to impossible](https://capybaracards.app/blog/hypothetical-questions-for-couples): Hypothetical questions for couples: funny what-ifs, future ones, impossible picks and a few jealous ones that stay playful, plus how to ask for a real answer.
- [Trap questions to ask your girlfriend (sweet, then rigged)](https://capybaracards.app/blog/trap-questions-to-ask-your-girlfriend): Trap questions to ask your girlfriend: playful questions with no clean answer, some for over text, some funny ones, and how to keep it a game, not a fight.
- [Would you rather questions for girlfriend: funny to impossible](https://capybaracards.app/blog/would-you-rather-questions-for-girlfriend): Would you rather questions for girlfriend: funny picks, flirty ones, some that annoy her a little, some impossible ones, and how to play so she must choose.
- [All articles](https://capybaracards.app/blog)